How do I change conref color?

Hi,

I'm a new user of FrameMaker, but have used Arbortext for the past three years. I've just wasted my entire morning trying to figure out how to change my conref color from blue to black. (blue? why blue? and why no simple way to change it?). I've read everything google pointed me to, but nothing seems clear or relevant enough (old versions of FrameMaker, unexplained procedures, etc.)

Please, somebody, have mercy on me and give me clear, concise instructions on how I can make the text color of my conreffed content default always to black.

Thanks!!